ㄩㄢㄐㄧㄚyuānjiāˊㄐㄧㄝˇjiěㄅㄨˋˊㄐㄧㄝˊjié

冤家宜解不宜结
yuānjia yí jiě bù yí jiéㄩㄢ ˙ㄐㄧㄚ ㄧˊ ㄐㄧㄝˇ ㄅㄨˋ ㄧˊ ㄐㄧㄝˊ
  1. 仇人冤仇儘量化解繼續結仇用作規勸 冤家宜解不宜結下去你們子女連累!」。

It is better to squash enmity rather than keeping it alive (proverb)​